Trying tailscale between 2 linux (fedora 35/36) machines. One is behind “difficult” fw, one is my home router that I control. Home router has upnp enabled.
tailscale status
100.78.217.122 nbecker2 ndbecker2@ linux -
100.121.189.22 nbecker8 ndbecker2@ linux active; relay “nyc”, tx 775588 rx 3930268
Right now it is stuck using relay. But other times this same setup goes direct. I tried tailscale down/up a few times. Any ideas how to convince tailscale to go direct?